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Presence

Navigating High-Stakes Communication 

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IN THIS LESSON

What We’re Achieving

At senior levels, your words don’t just fill air—they shape outcomes. In boardrooms, investment committees, or deal negotiations, your ability to communicate with clarity, structure, and composure determines whether others see you as an operator, a partner, or a leader.

This module focuses on elevating how you show up in pressure moments: holding the room, distilling complexity into what matters, and staying grounded even when challenged. Whether you’re defending an investment thesis, fielding pushback on strategy, or representing your team in front of executives, your communication becomes a proxy for your credibility and influence. 

Key Learning Areas

  • Structuring messages that cut through noise and land with impact in high-stakes settings.

  • Leading with presence and composure when the pressure spikes—turning intensity into authority.

  • Demonstrating executive gravitas across audiences, from clients to committees to C-suite peers.

  • Using tone, body language, and pacing as tools to influence perception and trust. 

Deepen Your Understanding and Translate Insights into Action

    • Do you adapt your communication style based on the audience—clients, investors, boards, or internal leaders?

    • In tense discussions, do you maintain control of pace and tone, or default to over-explaining and jargon?

    • When challenged, do you hold presence and frame the conversation—or retreat and defer?

    • Would peers describe your communication as concise, compelling, and trustworthy?

    • No-Jargon Drill: Pick a complex idea in your domain. Explain it in two minutes as if to a smart outsider. Record and refine until the message is crisp, relatable, and credible.

    • Video Playback Analysis: Film yourself giving a 3-minute pitch, thesis defense, or strategic update. Review for tone, flow, and authority. Share with a peer for candid feedback.

    • Pause & Presence Practice: In your next meeting, deliberately slow your response before answering a tough question. Notice how silence can amplify presence.

Real-World Challenge

Boardroom Simulation: Prepare for an upcoming high-stakes meeting by drafting a one-page briefing that distills the message, risks, and recommended path forward. Deliver it to a trusted peer, mentor, or coach in a simulated Q&A. Capture where you held ground, where you rushed, and how you managed pressure. Then refine for the live setting.

Resources to Go Deeper

    • Speaking Up: Surviving Executive Presentations – Frederick Gilbert > Amazon

      Takeaway: Learn to command attention with brevity, clarity, and structured logic, even when challenged. 

    • Gravitas – Caroline Goyder > Amazon | Blinkist

      Takeaway: Authority is not about volume—it’s about intention, groundedness, and owning the space with quiet confidence. 

    • Thank You for Arguing – Jay Heinrichs > Amazon | Blinkist

      Takeaway: Persuasion is a teachable skill; tap into classical rhetoric tools to influence without aggression. 

    • TED’s Secret to Great Public Speaking – Chris Anderson > YouTube

      Takeaway: Center your message around one compelling idea that resonates and sticks. 

    • Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are – Amy Cuddy > YouTube

      Takeaway: Non-verbal cues (posture, tone, energy) shape not just perception but your own performance. 

    • How to Speak So That People Want to Listen – Julian Treasure > YouTube 

      Takeaway: Tone, pace, and vocal control are vital leadership tools, especially under pressure.